
You’re oh so enticing
lined in a row.
A multitude of styles,
patterns, shapes, and colors.
Where you’ll take me,
my mind explores –
to the boardroom
to the dance floor
to a night of amour
Wanting so much
to scoop you up, slip you on
and slip away –
to another location
to a romantic vacation
to a dream vocation
Then I remember,
that I have several,
just like you at home,
tucked away in a box and
placed on a shelf.
Perfectly fitting for each
of these daydreams.
Until then, I will keep
slipping into comfort
and staying away from –
joint pain
back pain
callouses
shortened tendons
sprained ankles
ingrown toenails
Perhaps it’s a blessing that
my reasons for needing you
are few and far between,
because the results you create
don’t have the same effect
as my daydreams.

In my twenties, I broke you in and I wore you out.
You complemented my professional dress,
always tailor-fitted and perfectly pressed.
My office attire changed when I became a teacher for hire.
To the back of the closet, I sent you and my business suits,
and out came the modest clothes and sensible shoes.
You stood your ground and I found you again and again,
for special occasions and dinner engagements,
which became nonexistent during the pandemic.
It is a new day. The sun is shining, and the weather is warm.
With a sole purpose and mask adorned, I am off to the shoe store
to buy one pair of summer sandals, nothing more.
Browsing the casual aisle, a shimmer catches my eye.
I know what is going on behind my back –
a row of sparkles attempting to attract.
I will pretend to not notice. I will ignore.
I came for summer sandals, nothing more.
My plan was foiled when I looked up.
A reflection, now shining behind and in front.
There is no escape. I am trapped!
Fine! Just one glance. One try. One uplifting dance.
Bedazzled and beguiled, but not convinced, I pass the glittery straps
and grab a look that has less sparkle, but more appeal –
a sleek black heel.
Versatile and sensible still. Right?
A few power strides and I come alive.
My feet did easily slip into this power trip.
I am lifted. This feels good. I will not lie.
Tomorrow, I may (or may not) pay a price.
Today, you are a perfect fit. I give in. You win.
I wasn’t going to try you. I wasn’t going to buy you.
Then, I realized I have a special occasion and I need your look.
The sun is shining on this new day and on this new day, I woke up.
That is special enough.

The first poem, “Stilettos,” was written in early 2020 and is included in my first Being a Woman – Overcoming poetry collection. What began as a one-poem post turned into just one more, after I took an overdue trip to the shoe store. No surprise to my readers, who know I am generous with my words, keeping you from your chores. 😂 The second poem, “A perfectly sensible Heel,” that stepped into my world yesterday afternoon, offers a different shoe point of view (and a bit more fun too). 👠 Thank you for visiting and reading. Be well. 💗 Michele
To honor Mother’s Day coming up in May, our Being a Woman paperback poetry collections are being offered at a reduced price for a limited time. The three collections, created by poet mom (me) and artist daughter (Sammi Lee), are a creative alternative for the traditional expensive Mother’s Day single card. The collections, in their entirety, span all phases of a woman’s life, from a young girl to an elderly departed woman, and others in between. The collections offer reflection, empowerment, historical reference, laughter, wisdom, and guidance. The collections are offered through Amazon and can be accessed by clicking each image, or by searching Michele Lee Sefton on Amazon. Previews and reviews are also available. Enjoy!
Illustration: Being a Woman – Overcoming illustration, created by Sammi Lee Photo 1 and 2: DSW shoe store, my images, perfectly sensible heels 😂
© 2021 Michele Lee Sefton.
I enjoyed these poems. They reminded me of a conversation I had with a friend earlier this week about shoes, specifically about how our relationships with heels have changed as we’ve gotten older. And what stilettos symbolized in terms of sex appeal, etc. when we were in our twenties. Now, I’d take that sensible heel any day (on the rare occasion I take off my flats). 😉 Again, lovely work!
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Thank you. It is amusing to think back on earlier choices. Fashion, shoes, and otherwise. 😂 An interesting observation at the shoe store. There were drastically less heels to choose from and several more rows of athletic and casual shoes. The pandemic has impacted our shoe choices too. No need for high heels when working from home and not going out, I suppose. But hey, we only live once… might as well wear a heel around the house. Not for an entire day though, like we maybe once did. 🤣 Thank you for stopping by and leaving your shoepoint. 😉
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Great images! Fun poems for sure.
My heels have been replaced by a orthopedic boot for the past few months; therefore, I can relate to the strain and pain!
Thanks for keeping the mood light.
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Thanks, VP. So happy to see you, or read you, here. I am not laughing at your pain, but your comment made me laugh. That is quite a trade! Not a fun one. 😞 Speedy healing to you. 🤗 Happy to share a few lighthearted smiles and shoe styles. 😂 Thanks for being here.
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I enjoyed your tribute to shoes. I gave up heels several years ago because of bad knees. I can’t go back again. Thank you for sharing.
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Thank you for reading my lighthearted look at a fashion statement that can also deliver pain and discomfort. My heels make rare appearances, compared to their starring role earlier in my life. 😄 Best to you. 💐
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I think we all discover a need to shove them to the back of our closet aaaas we geeet older.
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Yes, true. Definitely not an everyday, all day look. Wisdom shows up in many ways. 😉
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Really wonderful.
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Thank you, Nico. Some lighthearted fashion fun. 😁
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Blessings.
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I gave up wearing them. Too painful. Groucho Marx said: Time wounds all heels 😁
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That is too bad, they can be the perfect accessory for the right outfit, but a completed look may not be worth the pain. 👠😢 They are fun (in moderation) and offer a little lift for the height disadvantaged, like me. 😁 Perfect quote for this post. 👏🏻 😂
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I found this really interesting because when I was younger I couldn’t resist buying heels but I couldn’t stand the pain of wearing them for long, so I have a cupboard full of heels that have hardly been worn. Even at my wedding, I ended up dancing barefoot! 😅
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I have my go-to heels for dressy occasions, but I know what you mean. Even my “vintage” heels look new because they do not get a lot of use. Too bad! This has been especially true over the last year. ☹ Barefoot bride – that is funny! I did not dance barefoot at my wedding, but I do almost daily now. 😆 Maybe we should dust off our heels on occasion and dance around the house. Be careful though! 😄
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Oh yes – I might put my flamenco dress on while I’m at it: olé! 💃
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I love it! Yes!! ¡Olé!
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Lovely poem; I loved how you shared an experience so artistically!💫 I don’t wear heels at all but I do agree, they look good from a distance 😂
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I am pleased you liked my poems. The second one snuck up on me… in more ways than one, I suppose. 😄 I guess that row of heels spoke to me. With their dwindling numbers at the shoe store, they were looking for an advocate. 😂 Not wearing heels – you are saving your feet, your back, your knees, and your wallet. 😁 Have a wonderful weekend.
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I loved both of these, Michele 😀
❤
David
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That makes me smile. Two times. Thank you, David. 😊 They weren’t boots made for walking and I did not stomp down the carpeted aisle, like I did before my poetry reading, but I still had fun. 😆 ❤
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I can identify with all of these “shoes” . My feet and ankles are eternally grateful for my having abandoned them however. But I am many years older than you and so I think you should wear those stilettos now while you can. 😄
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In your vocation, high heels would not be advised. 😄 Safety first! I will wear them more than I have in the past year, but never as much as I did in my younger years. A happy medium. 😀
Side note: I took some photos of horses/horseback riders in Prescott, AZ last weekend. That was fun! Not as much fun as riding a horse, but still fun. 🐴😀
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Yes boots are the safest. Interestingly though it is safest to wear boots that have a small heel as it prevents your foot from going through the stirrup . This can be bad if you fall off , foot goes through the stirrup and you get dragged. Good to know you enjoyed taking the photos o the horses.
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That is interesting and makes perfect sense. Falling is never good, terrifying in the situation you described. I did enjoy the unexpected photo opportunity along the trail. I saw them at Willow Lake. 😀
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OMG Michele, in spite of the discomfort after standing in these high heels for an extended period of time, I always choose stilettos! I’m sorry but they make any leg look stunning! Loved your rumination! 👠♥👠
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That is awesome, Kym! You are a fashion queen. I am sure you always look amazing when heading out. 😊 I prefer at least a short heel, because I am so short. 😂 Don’t be sorry, they do complement natural beauty. Thank you for enjoying. I made myself laugh at the store yesterday, and then had to come home and write about it. 😆 You would be very proud of me – I am wearing high heels right now. 👠😁 Enjoy your Sunday.
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Oh Michele…I absolutely love it!!! ❤💚💜 You go on girl, be bold and be fabulous! 👗👜🕶💍💄👒
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😊 I will follow your lead beautiful and bold Kym. 👠💃🏻🌹
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Yesssssss!!!
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A great read, Michele! And Dolly Parton said that when she’s feeling a little low, she puts on her favorite high heels to stand a little taller. I’d wear them if i have the chance!
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Thank you, Marron. 😄 Great quote! I can relate. Love Dolly. 💖 Do it! 👠👏🏻
I will be finishing and commenting on your recent post soon. 😀
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Thank you for sharing my high-stepping post! 👠😄
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Ha! Yes, indeed!!!
Always a joy and pleasure to read and share your posts with followers, My Dear! Hope you have a great weekend!! xoxox 😘💕🎁🌹
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Thanks! You do the same. 😊
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I love both of these, Michele. Having been a teacher since the age of 21, I never did wear the tall healed shoes (expect perhaps on Sunday to church). During my 26 years of teaching, I just got used to the flat shoes. I love your poems because they bring back my feelings of “shoe-lust”—loving the beautiful stilettos, but knowing they were not destined to ever adorn my feet, Your playful tone allows me to have fun with this life-choice.
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I love that you love both of these. 🥰 I do understand not wearing tall heels in the classroom. I usually wear at least a short heel. They are more comfortable (for me) than flats and give me a little more height, which I definitely needed in a classroom with all of those tall kiddos.😆 Thank you for reading and having fun. 😊
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Amazing words and poetry shared.
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So kind of you! Thank you, John.
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You are welcome dear Michele Lee. I love your work.
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Gratitude! 🥰🙏🏻
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Dear Michele Lee. A amazing and fun post to read. Hello from Michigan.
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I am glad you had fun reading my opposing shoepoint poems. 😄 Howdy Michigan! 👋🏻
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I did. I feel sorry for the women in heels. I would tell them, be barefoot and allow the feet to breathe. I always like the barefoot ladies. A warm day in Michigan. I need some warmer days to roam to my lake. Lake St. Clair.
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We should all kick off our shoes more often and feel the earth beneath our feet. It is grounding and nurturing. ❤
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I agree. When the warms day comes. My shoes are gone dear Michele.
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Warm days call for a relaxed state of mind and body. Ironically, in the hot Sonoran Desert shoes are needed during the summer months or feet will burn! 🔥
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This hit me hard! I love shoes, I have bought shoes and just sat them in my closet to look at lol
I cannot wear heels anymore and it pains me to no end but it also pains me to wear them! Comfort now is my thing, sadly….
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Hopefully the “hard” hit did not hurt. 😉 Just playing. I understand. I am not much of a shopper for most things, but I do love shoes. I have a hard time letting go of high heels, especially if they are barely worn. 😂 Health and comfort are most important, but I can empathize with how you feel about the pain of wearing and missing a high heel. 👠 Heels would slow you down, out there taking all of those gorgeous photos. 😀
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Haha yes indeed. Now I live in Keen and Merrill hikers! I also have a thing for purses 😉
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I understand that too. 😁
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I love the juxtaposition of the poems. This is a universal journey for many women–including me! xoxo
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Thank you, Sandra. 😊 A universal journey, taken one step at a time, in whatever shoe best fits the moment and need! 😆
🤗 😘
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I really enjoyed this one. It is one of those love-hate women things that made me smile.
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Thank you. I am glad that my post made you smile. The topic of my poem does seem to evoke either of those feelings, yes. I am enjoying and a bit surprised by the discussion. I love it!
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What a marvelous writeup, Michele! I used to adore wearing heels, but times have changed! Thanks for sharing this with us. Stay blessed 🥰💐❤️💫
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Thank you, Diana. Very kind of you to say. I do love them, but I can’t imagine wearing them all day, like I once did. Ugh! Have a wonderful day! 🌼
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🤗😊❤️
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I am amused by your titling, Michele, and find myself more drawn to opposing shoe-points after ruminating over the tangoing attitude of both poems! Being my short and roundy self, I am afraid heels kill my feet. I want that long stride, but it never comes so I have no stilettos and no heels.
However, during my trip two years ago to Tucson, I found the most perfect pair of black platform heels in the most perfect size seven. It is an ongoing love affair. There is nothing like a love shoe to make a person feel confident and on top of the world! 🥰
Nothing like words to capture the feeling too.
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Thank you for noticing! 😉 I had fun with those two titles. Fun play on words by you too. 👠😁 As attractive as heels can be, they are not the easiest to walk in. If I wear them, I have to be able to do that. haha I participated in numerous graduations and chaperoned many high school dances during my teaching days and I have seen my share of too-tall walking and dancing attempts. Heels were not that tall in my day. 😉
Shoe shopping in Tucson. Nice! Platforms give a nice solid support. I understand your love affair with those. I have some that are probably older than you. 😆 Yes, shoes can lift us up. Thank you for sharing your shoepoints. Fun!
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😂😂 A good pair of shoes somehow manage to last a lifetime, if only in memory!
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True! They can also last a lifetime in a trunk, like my old platforms. 😂
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So unlike my “guy-thinking,” Michele (regarding clothes in general), but a truly delightful read.
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Thank you for venturing beyond your “guy-thinking” and reading two poems about high heels.😆 I am glad you enjoyed the shoepoints. 😁 Most days, I would rather be enjoying nature than shopping. My brother, on the other hand, is Mr. Fashion. Truly. It is quite impressive. Have a wonderful week!
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You too!
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A great pair of poems! I love how the desire and appeal can often lead us down paths not always the best for us. Sometimes common sense is our friend!
Dwight
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Thank you. True! And common sense is not so common. 😆 Be well.
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Your are right about that!
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Hahaha…a perfectly sensible heel;loved that title
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Thank you! I had fun with that one or those two I should say. 😆
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That’s a dilemma now🤔😂😂
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Yes! 😆
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I thought you meant the main title when I first read your comment. I am not awake yet. 😂 “Sensible Heel” – that is far fetched! 😆 Thank you.
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Please will you buy us
(Twin sister and I)
We’re both the same colour
What’s that? Why you sigh?
You don’t like purple?……
Pity……
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haha
Same color and same size-
one in each color would be nice!
It would be a pity to not like purple.
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Ah, well they tried…and watch that Mr Todd…he may look a picture of innocence but you never can tell…..
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Ha! I am usually a good judge of character, but who knows, the library lizard might be hiding a cold-blooded reptile underneath that adorable welcoming smile. 😆
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Good heavens, now you’re beginning to scare me…….
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haha I am pretty scary! hahaha
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Hmmm……
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I love the tongue-in-cheek humor of these opposing shoe-points. A lovely fresh and smile-inducing look at a situation many of us have faced.
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Thank you so much for appreciating my tongue-in-cheek humor. 😁 I love the broader perspective you have applied to these high-stepping poems. 👠😄 Have a happy and healthy week!
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I have walked aile on my stillettoes if not yours
😉
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😄
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I really liked these poems, Michele!
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Thank you very much, Dawn. For visiting old posts and for appreciating and commenting. I had fun writing those poems and wearing those shoes. 😁 👠
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