
Its journey to the next.
We give because someone gave to us.
We give because nobody gave to us.
We give because giving has changed us.
We give because giving could have changed us.
We have been better for it,
We have been wounded by it—
Giving has many faces: It is loud and quiet,
Big, though small, diamond in wood-nails.
Its story is old, the plot worn and the pages too,
But we read this book, anyway, over and again:
Giving is, first and every time, hand to hand,
Mine to yours, yours to mine.
You gave me blue and I gave you yellow.
Together we are simple green. You gave me
What you did not have, and I gave you
What I had to give—together, we made
Something greater from the difference.
Poem, “When Giving is all We Have,” by Alberto Rios

Born in Nogales, Arizona, in 1952, Alberto Rios has been the Arizona Poet Laureate since 2013. From 2014 to 2020 he served as Chancellor of the Academy of American Poets. Holding a BA degree and an MFA in creative writing from the University of Arizona, he has been the director of the Virginia G. Piper Center for Creative Writing at Arizona State University since 2017.
Ríos has written several books of poetry and prose and is the recipient of several awards. His book titles include, Not Go Away is My Name, The Smallest Muscle in the Human Body, Whispering to Fool the Wind, and the novel The Iguana Killer: Twelve Stories of the Heart. His awards include, the Walt Whitman Award, the Western States Book Award, six Pushcart Prizes in both poetry and fiction, the Arizona Governor’s Arts Award, and fellowships from the Guggenheim Foundation and the National Endowment for the Arts.
Biographical information: Poets.org Featured poem: “When Giving is all We Have.”

Personal note: The ASU Piper Center for Creative Writing, directed by Rios, included my poem, “Buried Roots,” in their Anthology (2020). 🎉 I had the privilege of participating in a live poetry reading prior to the anthology launch. What an honor! (poem not published on my blog)
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I really like the poem. Excellent recitation. One comment on the sound. You are getting a lot of reverb from the room. If you have a way of hanging something to absorb the reverb. like blankets or towels, on either side of you out of view of the camera, that will help clear up your voice.
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Thank you, Timothy. 🙏🏻 I really appreciate your helpful tips. Speaking of sound, my video attempt was interrupted by barking dogs, loud trucks, a jet flyover, and screaming kids outside. 😆 I will try your suggestion, or I may just curl up in the blanket and take a nap. 😂 I used a robot cameraman this time – the “Apai Genie.” Pros: my phone easily attached to the device, which easily attached to my tripod. It has an easy-to-use app which has features like, following the video subject. Cons: it did not always work, and the video quality seems a bit distorted, which might be my phone. Not sure.
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Sound absorbers will help some with the external noises. Late light or early morning recording might be in order.
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Thank you. I will give it a go, then I will take a nap. 😁 Early morning might be too early.
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Beautiful…Poetry
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Thank you. I am glad you enjoyed my selection. I read several holiday-themed poems this week, and this one stood out to me. Not a “festive” poem, but I like his message.
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Thank you for giving of your time to provide visitors with a wonderful recitation of this poem, Michele. It is said that ‘variety is the spice of life’, and that together, by people sharing with one another, we complement each other in creating a synergy which elevates both. I appreciate you sharing, and, if I may say so, you look as beautiful as a desert rose. 🌞🌹 Have a great weekend!
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You are welcome, Phil. I would rather read and recite poetry than spend time in holiday shopping lines, or many other things that are less enjoyable. Thank you for your kind words and for sharing your thoughts about the synergy created when people share their talents and gifts with others. 🙏🏻 Wishing you the same. 🌞
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Fantastic poem, Michele, thank you for sharing and reading!
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A seemingly simple poem with a meaningful and relevant message during the season of giving. Thank you, Ingrid, for visiting and commenting. 🌻
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I think it’s the perfect message for this time of year 😊
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I am pleased you connected with this poem. 💝
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Lovely poem and recital Michele. Giving is such a powerful yet tenuous act.
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Thank you, Brad. Nice of you to say and yes, I agree. 🎁
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how incredibly heartwarming, Michele 🙂
Thanks for sharing with us!
❤
David
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I thought so too. 💖 Thank you, David. It was my pleasure. ✨
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Oh what a beautiful and compelling recitation Michele. 🙏🏼 When giving is all we have to give, we are changed by it, and it is truly humbling when it’s done from the heart and soul. 💖🥰❤ I love your passion Michele! The warmth these words invoke the kindness we share and how we become a better person as a result! 👏🏼 Here’s to a great weekend my dear! 🥂 You make me feel like dancin’, I wanna dance the night away! 💃🏽🎵💃🏼
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Thank you, Kym, for your loving support and for sharing your heart, light, and soul. 💕Gifts for all of us! I agree, these warm words flood me with emotion, especially the last three lines. Cheers to that and to you! 🥂 Happy Anniversary weekend to you and your love. 💞
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I’m verklempt again! 😭 You certainly know how to weave your words and sentiments into a Disney World theme park my Dancing Queen! 💃🏼🎉🎢✨🎠🎆🎡 Thank you for being genuine, kind, loving, and encouraging. You simply glow with positive energy, and you never hesitate to give all you have from your heart!!! Here’s lookin’ at you kid!!! 💐🥂🦋
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Lovely poem Michele
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I agree! Rios did give us a lovely gem. Thank you. 💐
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Oh, I love this poem, Michele. The pairs of opposites is stunning. Wonderful. I so appreciate you sharing this excellent poet and poem with us; and, of course your recitation was magnificent. 💖🌺🌼
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I appreciate the contrasts too – echoing life. Happy to share a bit about Rios and his poem. Thank you, Jeff. My pleasure to give a little time and share some giving lines. 😁 Best to you during the holiday week. 🎄🎅🏻🎁
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You’re most welcome, Michele. Always. It was lovely. Thank you, my friend; a lovely holiday season to you too. 🎄🎄✨💖🌹
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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Thank you kind sir! 🙏🏻
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Always a joy and pleasure to read and share your posts with followers, My Dear! Hope you have a great day!! 😘💕🎁🌹
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Wonderful recitation. 💓
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Very nice poem and informative post
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Thank you, Prakaash. Nice of you to mention. Best to you and yours! 💐
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You are always welcome friend💐
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Thank you, VG. Greatly appreciated! Wishing you and yours a week of happiness and joy. 🌟
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Great recitation and the poem itself holds great meaning!
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Thanks, Tony. I really appreciate your kindness and support. I do agree! 🎁🤝🏻🎁 Happy holiday wishes to you and yours. You have much to celebrate this season! 🎓 🎉
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Michele Happy Holiday blessing sent for you and your family! You are 🎁! and yes I do have a lot to celebrate this season. Know that you are appreciated❤️🙏🌹
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So nice! Thank you, Tony. Hugs!
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This is very beautifully done Michele. I love the poem and the expression of giving as being a shared benefit of both the giver and receiver!
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Thanks so much, Dwight. Beautifully said. I listened to an audio of the Poet, Alberto Rios, reading the poem. He described it as a poem of thanks, including for people who volunteer. I love that. 💖 Happy Holidays to you and your family.
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Thank you Michele. And… to you and your family as well.
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Simplicity delivered so beautifully in this amazing poem so beautifully shared and recited Michele! I loved it! 💖❤️👏👏
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Wonderful words, Cindy. Thank you! I appreciate your visit and lovely comment. 💖 Sorry for the delayed response – I found your comment in my spam folder. 😞 I suppose I should check that pesky folder more frequently.
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Oh Yes of course and not a worry at all. My resolution is not to be in spam this year.. lol 💖👏🤣
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😂 🤗
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❤️😘💕
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Thank you so much for I received your post 🌷🙏♥️ very lovely poem and you also so sweet 👍🏻👏😊
The great Author’s story also so inspiring 🙏🌷 grace wishes and Merry Christmas to you and family 🌷🙏🌷
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I am happy to learn that you received my post and that you enjoyed it. Thank you, Thattamma. Peace, health, and joy to you and your family. Safety to your son too. 💝 💐
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So lovely reply message dear 🌷🙏❤️ Same wishes to you my dear 👏:)
My son ok, but his place worst flood happened, sea water also made
So much damage, few people died ,70000 thousand people staying
Shelters and very pity 😥 Government and people helping them 🌷🙏🌷
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Thank goodness your son is safe. So sad to learn of the damage. Prayers to your son and everyone having to deal with the terrible loss and devastation. 🙏🏼
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Thank you so much 😊 🙏🎄now also heavy raining here ☔️
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Thank you for giving us this beautiful recital, dear Michele !💕 you are the best lady to read this lovely poem for you are truly the embodiment of kindness, compassion, beauty, and grace in this poem, as well as in your person!
Send much love and gratitude to you! Have a charming and magical Christmas 🎄!
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It is my joy to share. Thank you for visiting and appreciating, Annabel. Your words and loving support mean so much to me. 💝 Wishing you, beautiful dancing poet, all the joy, wonder, peace, and love this season (and beyond) has to offer. 💖🌟💐
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🥳😃you bring sunshine and warmth to my Wednesday morning, dear Michele!🥳🎄
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I have not heard this poem before so I both loved reading it and then hearing it come alive as through your voice!
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I discovered it a few days before my share when I was searching for a holiday poem. It stood out to me from the others I read, and I thought it fun to highlight an Arizona poet. Thank you for listening and enjoying, Jaya. I am grateful.🙏🏼
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Fantastic poem with a powerful message Michele. Giving is pleasure,, heart warming and rewarding.
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Thank you, Sowmya. I am so happy to know this poem resonated with you. 💐I agree with you about giving. 🎁 Wishing you a wonderful week and holiday season!
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What a beautiful poem to be shared at this time of the year! Love the recitation too! I have always believed in giving, sometimes I think I give too much.. Hehe. But then I feel life is too short to keep the gifts of being alive only within ourselves. 🥰🤗🙏❤️🌹
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Thank you, Diana. What a beautiful comment. 💖 Your giving nature is evident in your beautiful poetry. As a giver, I can relate, and I agree with you. 🎁 I believe everything you give so graciously will come back to you tenfold, Diana. Wishing you a holiday season full of love, joy, wonder, and deliciousness!
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Amazing poetry. I’m looking for a poem with a different style than the one in my country.
I found this. It’s amazing, I’m really touched by the poetry you read.
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Thank you so much, Afriant. Thank you for the visit and comment. 🙏🏻
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Lovely poem with a powerful message Michelle.
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So kind of you. Thank you and Merry Christmas to you! 🎁
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Michele, I love this poem. It shows in seemingly simple words that giving and not giving can change something in us.
Here in Germany they say: “These are the real givers who give in order to give, but not in order to receive.” This is a quote from Wilhelm Vogel (19th / 20th century).
Thank you, Michele, for this wonderful poem.
Michele, I wish you and your family a merry Christmas! ❤️ 🎅🎁 🎄
Keep well, happy and safe.
Rosie
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Beautifully said. I am so glad you enjoyed the poem. Thank you, artist Rosie, for your comments and for sharing your meaningful quote. A very merry Christmas and holiday season to you and yours! 💖🎇
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Wonderful verbal poetry dear Michele. Hello from cold and snowy Michigan.
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Hello and thank you very much, Coyote. Stay warm!
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You are welcome, dear Michele.
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We give because someone gave to us.
We give because nobody gave to us.
These lines felt so real in so many layers of my being. This poem soothed my soul. The simplicity of giving and the richness it creates is beyond beautiful to experince.
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I like those lines too. A unique contrast that makes perfect sense. Rios is a talented poet. I am pleased that my poetry selection had a soothing effect on you. 😊 Thank you.
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Thank you. 🌞
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