
Weep, and you weep alone;
For the sad old earth must borrow its mirth,
But has trouble enough of its own.
Sing, and the hills will answer;
Sigh, it is lost on the air;
The echoes bound to a joyful sound,
But shrink from voicing care.
Rejoice, and men will seek you;
Grieve, and they turn and go;
They want full measure of all your pleasure,
But they do not need your woe.
Be glad, and your friends are many;
Be sad, and you lose them all,—
There are none to decline your nectared wine,
But alone you must drink life’s gall.
Feast, and your halls are crowded;
Fast, and the world goes by.
Succeed and give, and it helps you live,
But no man can help you die.
There is room in the halls of pleasure
For a long and lordly train,
But one by one we must all file on
Through the narrow aisles of pain.
by Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Ella Wheeler Wilcox was an American Poet and writer, born on November 5, 1850, in Janesville, Wisconsin. Her writing first appeared in Waverly Magazine and Leslie’s Weekly when she was a teenager. She was also published in Cosmopolitan Magazine and the Hearst Newspapers. She attended the University of Wisconsin for only one year, leaving to focus on her writing. She married Robert Wilcox in 1884; the two had one son who died shortly after birth. They lived in Connecticut and New York and were married for over thirty years before Robert’s passing in 1916.

She published her first book, Drops of Water in 1872 when she was 22 years old. Her book Poems of Passion (1883) sold over 60,000 copies in just two years. Her other poetry collections include Poems of Experience (1910), Poems of Peace (1906), and Shells (1873). Wilcox also published books of fiction and two autobiographies. She died on October 30, 1919, at her home in Short Beach, Connecticut.

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Poem, references and Wilcox Photos: One Hundred and One Famous Poems by Roy Cook, Poetry Foundation, Eller Wheeler Wilcox, Ella_Wheeler_Wilcox
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Michele,…this is simply beautiful. I loved learning of Ella. Her poem speaks to me. And your beautiful reading touches my heart ❤️. Thank you for lifting my morning. Xoxo
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You lift me! Thank you so much. I am pleased you enjoyed my selection and recitation. 💝 I hope all is well with you. Have a wonderful weekend. 🌻
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You’re so welcome! I’m hanging in there with faith and hope! You have a wonderful weekend too! 🎶🙏🏻❤️
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Always the teacher! I love that poem, though sad. You remind us that poetry is meant to be read aloud; and it is beautiful. Thank you.
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This is true. Teaching is a calling, that cannot be dissected from me. Fine by me. 😊 Thank you so much, KD. 🌞 Enjoy your day!
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Wonderful recitation. You were expressive and animated. A joy to watch and listen to.
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Very kind. Thank you, Timothy. 🙏🏻 Expressive jazz hands! 😆
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Your hads were wonderful and very moving with the verses. So much better than unmoved hand.
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It does feel natural, as I talk with my hands, and my mouth, of course. 👋🏻🗣️😆 Thank you.
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Beautiful poetic moments with your recitations! Congrats ✨💖
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How lovely. 😊 Thank you for appreciating my recitation. Wishing you a wonderful weekend, VG. 🌞
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Great poetry. I love drama in poetry. A necessary ingredient me thinks…like salt in food!
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I agree, her poem is timeless and a reflection of life, with a pinch of drama, yes. Too much and the dish is ruined! Thank you for sharing your poetic thoughts. 🙏🏻
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What a beautiful poem! Thanks for sharing.
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Wilcox did write a memorable poem. 😁 Thank you for visiting!
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Very amazing poem👌👌
The messages in verses are truthful and worth learning❤
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I am so glad you enjoyed the poem. 😊 Right you are! She captured life in her lines and gave us a meaningful lesson about the truth of it. Thank you for stopping by. 💐
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Lovely, friend. It speaks to both our hardships and our need to uplift ourselves. Your reading shares the beauty as only your heart can do. Thank you. Much love!
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Thank you so much, Sandra. A beautiful description of Wilcox’s poem. Much love to you. 🤗
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I find this poem sad and reflective of cultural beliefs that don’t help us. I think we need to share our pain (in healthy ways) as much as we need (and embrace) to share our joy. 🙏
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It is a sad poem and sadly, too often true. I agree with your thoughtfully expressed beliefs. Thank you, Brad. 🙏🏻
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Thank you for understanding. And I often retreat inward when in pain too, but think we heal by sharing our pain.
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I absolutely understand. I think the poet captured a sad truth of human existence. One that doesn’t have to be, nor should it remain. We should be more open, both personally, and as a society to supporting one another during the low times and being vulnerable enough to allow help in when needed. Thank you, Brad.
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Wow; you do this poem more than justice, Michele!
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David
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That is a most generous compliment. Thanks so much, David. 😊🙏🏻💝
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Beautifully done my Dancing Queen. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 This part of Ella’s poem really stands out for me:
Rejoice, and men will seek you;
Grieve, and they turn and go;
They want full measure of all your pleasure,
But they do not need your woe.
Her poem bores into our spirit of life, our stark reality, and the essence of wonder! Awesome Michele! You look marvelous BTW dawwwwllllink!!! 🤩🌟🥰
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Oh yeah, you picked a standout section for me too. I felt that. Your response is well written! 👏🏻 Thank you, ever so much articulate, elegant, and beautiful Kym. 💃🏽🤗💖
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Articulate…Elegant…Beautiful???? 😲 My gosh, I feel like Morris Day from The Time 🎵🎤🎶 Hey Jerome…pass me a mirror!!! LOL You are so sweet Michele. 💖🥰💓 A beautiful performance as always my friend! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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Well, you are a beautiful spirit, inside and out. ✨ haha You know I will need to listen to that now. 😁 🎶 Thank you very much. 🙇🏻♀️
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Michele, you know how to make me smile. 😊 Thanks so much my dear friend! But listen, we don’t need a reason to dance, now do we??? 🤔💃🏽🎵😜💃🏼
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Likewise. 😊 We woke up today. There is reason enough. 🌞
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This is wonderful.. The reality is always there but we still 🏃 and 🏃.. The poem is definitely generational!
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Thank you. I appreciate your visit and comment. True, we keep moving forward, until we can’t. 🙂 Many things have changed since Ella Wilcox wrote this poem, but human behavior has not.
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As are you, so too this poetic recitation a lovely presentation! It’s nice to listen, watch and also read the history you’ve shared. Thank you for doing so, dear Michele & have a great weekend!🌞🌹
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Thanks a million, photographer Phil. Very kind of you to spend some Saturday time listening to poetry and learning about a poet. 🙏🏻 Have a wonderful weekend!
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My pleasure, poetess Michele. It was a wonderful way to unwind, having returned after several hours of hiking & taking pictures…in 22 degrees!! What was I thinking?!!! 🥶 Thank you, my friend. 🤗
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Too kind. 22 degrees! Yeah, what were you thinking!?! Guess you weren’t! 😜 Listening/reading poetry is smart though. 😄 Enjoy!
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Having exited my vehicle, it took only a few minutes before I realized that I forgot gloves. But, I was only outside for four hours. 😆🙃 D’oh! My hands are still thawing as I type, one slow letter at a time. 😜
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What a gorgeous poem, and recitation, Michele. The last two lines of this poem are so powerful and true. A gorgeous addition to my afternoon. Thank you for sharing Ella with us. 💕
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I am glad you enjoyed the poem and my recitation. Thank you very much, Jeff. I agree – even for those lucky enough to have their hand held when passing, they take their last breath alone. How wonderful and a gorgeous afternoon it is! 🌞 My pleasure to share a poet voice. 💖
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You’re welcome, Michele. Always. Indeed, and agreed. A lovely afternoon here too! 🌞💖
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I have never read this poem or any works by this amazing woman, yet upon reaching the final line and seeing a photo of her, I instantly felt connected! In her shoes, words akin to these would surely be my form of expression.
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Your connection and appreciation to the poet adds additional value to my experience of researching her and fully submerging in her poems over the last few days. I am pleased. Thank you, Jaya. 🌻
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Such a wonderful poem from a strong and inspiring woman, and read by another! 😊
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The more I learned about Ella, the more interesting I found her. Thank you very much, Ingrid. Back at you! 😊
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Wonderful!
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Thank you, Nico. 🌻
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Excellent post and have a nice day Michele Lee.🙏
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Thanks so much, Prakaash. Have a wonderful week. 🌞
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Lovely recitation of the poem Michele. Lovely poem that reflects the profound truths of life. Thanks for sharing.
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I am most appreciative of your response to my post. Thank you, Sowmya. 💐
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With pleasure Michelle
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Lovely presentation, Michele ❤ This poem speaks such truth, then and now.
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Thanks so much, Natalie. I appreciate your visits today. 💐 Wilcox did capture many truths in her poem… life and death and pleasure and pain.
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Wonderful recitation Michele! And the poem, so lovely and so much truth in it, sad as that is.
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Thank you! So very kind of you. 🌻 Wilcox did bring a painful but truthful message to light. 😞
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Beautiful poem and reading, Michele. It’s is true that we often suffer alone, but the reality is that we can reach out to others who have known pain and provide the same understanding.
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Hi Lorraine! Nice to hear from you. Well said, thank you very much. 🙏🏻Have a wonderful week! 🌞
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Loved your recitation. I had forgotten all but the first two lines.
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Thanks so much! It’s only a matter of time before I forget too. 😂
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Your recitation feels so magical musical to listen to. It is a beautiful poem and so is your voice. I love the information you share about the poet.
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Magical and musical. ✨🎶 I love the sound of that. 😄 Thank you so much, Pragalbha. Very sweet. I am glad you enjoyed my share. 🙏🏻
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Looking beautiful dear Michele. Amazing verbal poetry.
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How sweet you are. Thank you. 🌞
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You are welcome, dear Michele.
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What a beautiful poem!
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Wilcox did write a gem! Thank you for your visit. 🌻
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It was a pleasure! 🙏
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Dope
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Michele, you have chosen a very beautiful poem by Ella Wheeler Wilcox. It is admirable that she published her first book in 1872. Because at that time it was not easy for women to be artistically active and to be successful. I didn’t know Ella and I’m glad you introduced her here. Because the beautiful poem speaks to me.
Thank you Michele❤️.
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Thank you for mentioning Ella’s incredible accomplishment in the context of being an artistic woman in 1872. I am so pleased to share Ella with you and delighted that the poem resonated with you. ✨ Thank you, artist Rosie, for your visit and important comments. 🙏🏻💐💗
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Thank you, Michele. Ella must have been a very interesting and intelligent woman. 🌸💕
Love and best wishes, dear Michele… Rosie
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Such a beautiful choice to read and your words and presence give it the meaning and attention it deserves. Bravo💖
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I am so pleased that you enjoyed my selection. Thank you for your beautiful comment, Cindy. 💗 🤗
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You’re most welcome Michele!
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This is one of favourite poems! You recited it beautifully!😊❤
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You have great taste! No surprise. 😄 Thank you so much, poetess Aaysid. 🙏🏻 💗
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You are very welcome, dear Michele.😊
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Not aware of the artist…but you delivered… and it was a poignant piece of poetry.
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I am happy to introduce her to you and I am glad you like the poem. Thank you kindly, Tony. I really appreciate it. 🙏🏻
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no problem, you are the beautiful inspiring Magnetic Michele, creating Oasis in the desert land❤️🥳🌞
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So very kind! Thank you, Tony. 😊
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You sound so awesome saying this beautiful poem.
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I truly appreciate your visit and comment. Thank you, Belladonna. 🌻
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You’re so welcome!
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I enjoyed this beautiful reading of a beautiful poem. I wasn’t familiar with this poet, but she looks like a force to be reckoned with, in that dress holding the white cat. I mean… what a pose!
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I am so glad you enjoyed my recitation. Thank you, Constance. 🙏🏻She does look like a force! Beautifully said.
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A great philosophical poem full of wisdom and reality! Very well done. Love the audio recitation.
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I concur! Ella Wilcox was a talented and insightful poet. Thank you very much, for listening and commenting. 🙏
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You are welcome, Michele!
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Michele I owe you a couple of ‘thanks’: 1) thank you for being the first to follow a writer finding his voice and honing his craft; and 2) thank you for this post.
The timeless fellowship between people of different generations and eras really strikes me. I find communion with her words that tell of her suffering, woe, and pain. Those parts of her poem speak to seasons I’ve had in my own life.
Now to your recitation. You approached the poem with gentleness and reverence. The manner of your delivery is a credit to Ms. Wilcox, and commending of yourself, as both a poet, and lover of poetry.
I especially like the biographical details you included. They enrich the overall experience.
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It is an honor to be your first reader. Your writing is interesting – keep sharing. Thank you for sharing that with me and for your wonderful comments about Wilcox’s poem, my recitation, and the biographical details. I enjoy memorizing poems and learning about the poets. Best to you and happy writing!
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Love this poem. Have never read the full poem before this. Thanks for sharing it.
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My pleasure. Thank you so much. 🌸
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One of my favorite poems I’ve ever read on this site. “Succeed and live, and it helps you give, but no man can help you die” especially spoke to me.
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Wonderful. Thank you for sharing. That is a most memorable line by Wilcox. 💖
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Omg I love this poem! So true
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Thank you for the visit and enthusiastic comment. It is an insightful and well-written poem. ✨
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Anytime 😁
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Deep poem
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Thank you, Benjamin. 🙏🏻
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You are welcome, Michele.
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