
make a statement with their style (not their substance).
They speak only polite whispers,
as to not offend or draw attention to.
Like words selectively spoken,
at a formal dinner the correct fork is carefully chosen (without hesitation).
To not know the difference between
a dinner fork and a fish fork would be scandalous!
A lack of etiquette? A guest not properly vetted?
The discerning hostess will surely make a mental note of it.
Wedgewood plates
lightly tapped by Tiffany silverware.
The right amount of clinking
creates a delicate symphony for the evening’s pleasantries.
Small bites slowly chewed (more untouched than consumed).
Waterford crystal reflecting a Rosdorf Park Chandelier.
Perfect posture complements a high back chair (don’t slouch on the velvet).
An impressive dinner party (a zenith experience for some).
For me –
not so much.
I would rather
wipe away the pretenses and painted-on red
and kiss him with my natural self and my naked lips.
…………………..
Let’s get out of here, she mouthed to him.
…………………..
Having escaped from the polished perfection
I feel the brush of his hand against my skin
while he pours me cocoa from his thermos.
Distracted by his eyes, dark (reflecting the sparkle of a million stars),
I am slow to notice
the lack of luster in his worn canister.
The dull does not diminish the sweetness
rushing down my throat and warming my core.
…………………..
Two lovers,
forever banned from a pretentious list.
Two lovers,
free from constraint and judgment.
Two lovers,
free to enjoy life’s finer things.


Thank you for visiting, reading, and listening. Be well. 💗 Michele
Enjoy my musical selection: Thou Swell by Blossom Dearie 🎶
I first featured Blossom Dearie in my post, “Water Under the Bridge” Her lyrics and voice are sweet and romantic – a perfect pairing for some of my posts. 💞
Blossom Dearie (April 28, 1924 – February 7, 2009) was an American jazz singer and pianist who performed regularly in London and in New York City. If you are interested in learning more about her, visit her official website: blossomdearie.com
Photos: my images, couple by aslysun
© 2022 Michele Lee Sefton
It’s nice to go to dinner and have lots of forks and fancy things but the best time to be had is when you let your hair down and eat wild!
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Yes, certain occasions call for formal settings, but wild and informal are more freeing!
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They really are!
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Nice Post.
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Thanks!
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Love the progression of poems. Imafraid I’d be the gauche topic of the whipsers in the first 😊 Maggie
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Thank you, Maggie, for appreciating my progression. 😊 All things lead to love. 💞 I am sure you would do just fine at a formal affair! Not exactly a relaxing meal. 😆
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Your picture captures the mood perfectly
Love the tiny details.
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Thanks a million, Pat, for noticing the details. 🙏🏻I do enjoy creating stories, not only with words, but with photos and facial expressions, if fitting. Side note: smiling is more natural for me… resting bitch face takes my smile’s place. 😆
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Love the resting bitch face.
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😁🙏🏻
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Two optimists 🤣
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That is a polite response. 😂
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I’m a diplomat in my spare time 🤣
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Spare me! 😂
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Thank you, Michele, for sharing another wonderful piece of your writing!
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My pleasure! 😊 Thank you, Art, for reading and commenting.
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You’re welcome, Michele!
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Love this.
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I am glad. Thanks for mentioning, Saania. 🌼
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❤
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Oh my gosh Michele, not the uppity hosts! 😲 Girl there is a time when I like a formal setting but if I find myself in an uncomfortable position, Kym will exit left! 🤣😜😂 I love to dress up, but gurrrllll, I gotta be me! Loved your jazz selection! 🎶🎼🎵
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Yes, some people take their hostessing and their formality a bit too seriously. 🙄 It takes a special skill set to organize a dinner and (hungry) people while maintaining a gracious attitude. 😇 A picnic basket for two is more inviting. 💞 Dressing up is almost as much fun as undressing. 😁 Thank you for adding more jazz to the mix! 🎶 “I gotta be me” smoking a cigarette. 😂
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🤣😜😂 LOL, girl, if walls could talk right? 😱 Yeah, I don’t do “stuffy” that well. I’ll leave that group to talk amongst themselves! Haha! 💃🏼😉🥂🤩💃🏽 Let’s dance the night away, shall we???
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Your poems are beautiful, and the song is lovely 🌹🌹🌹
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I am honored by your acknowledgment. Thank you very much, Luisa. 💐 A beautiful song, yes. 💖
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You’re more than welcome, dearest Michele 💕
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From 3 forks to elbows on the table my trajectory. No regrets.
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“No regrets” is muy bien! Thank you, Rebecca. 😊
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A wonderful read, enticing and enchanting Michele 🙂
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Thanks, bushboy! I am glad you enjoyed your time here. 😊
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I really love how you dressed up for this poem and how you top and tailed it with your purposeful poses. Your poem as always marvelous, take us on beautifully journey, story.
Nicely done.
And the video of thou swell, icing on the cake. A very good post. Thank you for sharing
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I couldn’t have said it better. Great job as always, Michele
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Why thank you, Mike! 🌻
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Immersive poetry with a touch of performance. 😁 I truly appreciate your generous acknowledgment of my efforts. I also love the expression, “top and tailed.” Thank you very much. 🌻
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Yes, that is what it is .. immersive with a touch of performance, as if you were speaking it on stage, and we are all watching and listening. You did very well to transport to a theatre type scene. Bravo
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It is gratifying to be valued and appreciated. Thank you.
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🙂
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Impromptu picnics, come as you are without dinnerware were always my favorite invites.
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Absolutely, yes! Sometimes too much planning leaves little room for fun and spontaneity.
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Yes, the ungarded moments…
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Nice poem
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Thanks, Wm. 🙏🏻
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The finer things are far better 🙂
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The finest things are priceless. 😊
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They really are 🙂
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I don’t think I have ever seen or used a fish fork. Sad isn’t it?
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Well, you just haven’t lived! 😆
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Very nice
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Thank you, Steven. I appreciate your comment. 🙏🏻
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I think you bridge both worlds well Michele.. pretty in red lipstick.. and these great lines with your hot chocolate suit you well too! 💞 “I am slow to notice
the lack of luster in his worn canister.
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Thank you, Cindy. Very kind comments. 😊 I am grateful for your time and support. 💗
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You’re so welcome Michele. It’s truly my pleasure… and I appreciate yours!🥰
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I love the counterbalance of a night out, and that of one at home. Though I enjoy fancy, I’ll take home every time. Wonderful write, Michele! 💖🌳
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Relaxing with a sprinkling of fancy seems a perfect mix. As I wrote this poetic story, I imagined the couple escaping to a star lit field – home is a nice destination too! And that is referenced in the song. 💖 Thank you, Jeff. 😊
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Yes, that reads perfectly; oh, and a star lit field, yes, please! 🌌 You’re welcome, Michele. Always. 💖☺️
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Delicious treat of reading you after so long dear Doll. Brilliantly beautiful as always loved every bit of it. Loves n hugs 🤗🥰❣
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Long time no read! Wonderful to do so again, Suma. 🤗 I hope life has been treating you well. Thank you for your gracious comment. 💗
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Sublime post, Michele, and a killer little black dress! Perfect for dining in or out ❣️
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Outstanding word choice. I am honored. Thank you, Nancy! Can’t go wrong with a little black dress, in or out, as you wrote. 🙌🏻
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Always a pleasure! And Blossom Dearie – how very very of you! 💫
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🥰
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Beautifully written. And I’d never make it in such an uptight place. Escape seemed like the only sane solution. Slouch, sip, and enjoy the bliss. 🙂
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Thank you, Terveen. I value your feedback about my writing. 🙏🏻 haha Nearest emergency exit – pronto! “Slouch, sip, and enjoy the bliss.” – Love that! 😁
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I’m with you, Michele! There was a lot of that influence when I lived in the San Francisco Bay area. But I’d much rather hop into my car, drive up Highway 1, and picnic among the redwoods. Let it all hang out, girlfriend! But you look lovely in your little black dress.
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Thanks Dawn! Your description sounds heavenly – a perfect day actually. 🌞🌳 I have had the pleasure of doing what you describe sans the picnic basket. Next time! 😁 Thank you for the sweet comment about my dress. I really appreciate that. 🙏🏻
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Loved the poem and that picture of you is gorgeous! I think the most fun times are when you can just be yourself 😊
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Thank you, Pooja, for your sweet words of support. I am grateful. 😊 Being able to be oneself is best, yes! 🙌🏻
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You’re very welcome 😊
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I’ve attended a few such stuffy affairs. I don’t miss them! ❤ Great post, Michele!
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I don’t blame you! An experience to be had – just not too often. 😁 I am delighted that you enjoyed my post. Thank you, Cheryl. 💐
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Beautiful unfolding story about embracing your wild side! ❤ Sensual and fizzing with passion, Michele 🙂
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Thank you, Tom, for the enthusiastic and descriptive summary of my poetic story. Love it! 😊
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Two lovers lost in the labyrinth of life with the same intention to enjoy the good things in life.
It’s a pleasure to go through your blog.
Best regards. 🤗
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What a lovely description of my post. Thank you very much! “Lost in the labyrinth…” sounds alright with me. 😊 I appreciate you being here. Best regards to you too. 🙏🏻
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🤗😀🤗
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Lovely and thought-provoking writing, Michele, and I think the definition of “finer things” could vary for each person. It’s fun to browse other comments and I like what Dawn wrote about a picnic among the Redwoods. We do that often among the redwoods at a local park, a truly magical destination. Or camping in the mountains, doing some outdoor cooking with a sparkling lake nearby. The finer things. 🙂
Great post and beautiful photo!
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Treasured thoughts from you. Thank you very much, Lauren. I am grateful. 🙏🏻😊
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My comment yesterday unexpected error came, beautiful post and grace wishes dear 🌷🙏♥️🌷
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It happens. I am grateful that you tried again. Thank you very much, Thattamma, for reading and appreciating my work. 🙏🏻💗💐
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Emotional poetry Michele! 💖
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I believe so, yes. 💗 Thank you, VG.
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Utterly magnificent!❤
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ahhhh Very generous of you. Thank you, Aaysid. 💗
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Always a pleasure.😊
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Yes! Freedom🥰
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Sometimes it is better to be banished from polite society! 😅
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I second that! 😁🙌🏻
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I so love this delicate contrast between what is considered to be the polite, elegant side of the world and another kind of more natural beauty! ❤
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Beautifully perceived. 💖 Thank you writer, Jaya!
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Yes to being banned from pretentious lists! Yes to lips — painted or not, whispering or not — that speak truth from the heart. Thank you for sharing your light, Michele 💖
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Yes!! 🙌🏻 Wonderful commentary, Natalie… what matters most is that lips speak their truth. 💖 My pleasure and privilege. 🙏🏻
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Love this post!
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I am pleased. Thank you very much, Cathy! 🙏🏻
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