
My dad’s way.
I heat the oil. The perfect hot.
Then I sprinkle kernels across.
Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack
Scatter but don’t double-stack.
Then the dance begins.
Watching. Right hand – lifting and shaking the pan.
Return to the heat.
Repeat.
Shaking Shaking Shaking
Metal and glass clinking.
Then the magic begins.
Pop… Pop
Hard yellow transformed to fluffy white.
Pop Pop
Pop Pop Pop
Pop Pop Pop Pop Pop Pop Pop Pop Pop Pop Pop Pop!
Pop Pop Pop Pop Pop Pop
Pop Pop
Pop
Sprinkle some sea salt
on that yummy hot.
Perfectly popped.
🍿
Making popcorn connects me to my dad.
The sounds. The smells. The memories.
I see him in the kitchen, shaking the pot.
The bowl is for me, but I enjoy every bite with him.
A poem I penned while enjoying my popcorn, with no intentions of sharing it (it being my poem; my popcorn I’d be happy to share). I changed my mind about sharing when it occurred to me that I am not the only one feeling the loss of a loved one this holiday season. If that’s you, I hope this popcorn post makes you smile. May you take comfort in fond memories and find ways to enjoy the holidays while honoring those you miss. 💞

Photography is another way I connect with my dad memories; he became passionate about capturing delicate flowers and the Salt River wild horses during his retirement. I picked up a camera after he passed in 2019. He and I did not enjoy the creative hobby together, but I think of him often when I am clicking, especially when a bee buzzes in front of me. This made him quite happy! 🐝

Thank you for visiting. Be well. 💗 Michele

Photos: My images, Mill Avenue (near Tempe Town Lake and Arizona State University). My extended Happy Hour… where I ventured after the golden and pink disappeared.
© 2022 MyInspiredLife
A delicious way to remember your Pop (bad pun intended). I can taste the salt and butter now.
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Yes, and all puns are welcome here. 😁 I thought about weaving that word in, but I never called him that. I am glad you added it. 👍🏻 Thank you, Pat.
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Glad to help. Figured you didn’t call him that so I did it for you. 😁
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Much obliged! I also considered mentioning he grew up surrounded by corn stalks but that felt a bit too corny. 😆
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Puns R us. 😉
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Love it! 😁
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❤️
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We had one of those pans where there was a little handle and a wheel that turned something at the bottom of the pan to keep the corn moving. Do they still use those? Lovely post.
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Sounds fancy! I am not familiar with that. Mine is just a sturdy metal deep pan. Thank you, David. 😊
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I share popcorn with my grandkids everytime we are together. The other night they experienced jiffy pop. They were quite amazed. Wonderful writing thank you for reminding me of the joys of simple things ☺️
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Sweet memories you are creating. Or should I say, salty? 😁 Jiffy Pop would be fun (and safer) for kids. Magic! A light-hearted poem – thank you for enjoying and mentioning the joy of simple things. Lasting joy found there. 💖
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Best way to make popcorn taste best!
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Absolutely, yes! Microwaveable is faster but it’s not the same. 😊
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Jiffy pop stole the style but never the taste.
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They may be jiffy, but they didn’t steal my style. 😁
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Thank you, Michele, for sharing this wonderful poem that includes the vivid memory of your dear father. Sending love and kind wishes. 🙏
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My treat, to share and eat. 😁 Thank you, Art, for appreciating my popped poem and for sharing kindness. 🙏🏻
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You’re welcome, Michele. 🙏
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Oh gosh, you really did it the old-fashioned way Michele. We just did Jiffy Pop Popcorn growing up! LOL 🍿😂🍿 Love the memories, love the poem, and I love your photos of the Christmas spirit in lights! 🌟🎄✨Oh what fun it is to ride….
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It’s the most delicious way that I still enjoy. Butter not necessary when cooked just right! 😋Thanks for all the love, Kymbelina. 💗 You do know how to butter me up! 😁 Over the fields we go, laughing all the way… 😊🤗
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🎅🏼🎄🤶🏼 “Ho, Ho, Ho Michele my Belle! There you go girlfriend! You know that you reminded me of the song by The Foundations right? BUILD ME UP BUTTERCUP! Always thinking about what we can dance to! LOL 💃🏼🤣🧈🥰💖🤗💃🏽 Merry Christmas sweetie pie!!! 🥧
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You are the cutest! 😊 Warm up for tonight’s class. Thanks, Kymbelina.
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💃🏼🎶✨🎵💃🏽
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Great to share popcorn with your dad. Great action poem – pop!
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Yes, it was. 😊 Thanks so much, Rebecca.
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A Beautiful Tribute to your Dad this poem popcorn and Christmas celebration beautiful memories 😃❤️ Christmas tree and popcorn fry so awesome !! I’ll make popcorn in pressure cooker for my grandchildren 😃👌 The poem smack smack, pop pop mind blowing 👌😃
Good night for you and grace wishes :)🙏🌹
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I am delighted by your joyful response. Thank you, kind and beautiful Thattamma. Enjoy the popcorn with your precious grandchildren. 💗 Good night to you.
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🌷🙏♥️💐Thank you so much for lovely comment message dear friend and
Sorry , not goodnight , good morning and now good evening to you 😊🙏Advance Merry Christmas 🎄💝
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How beautiful. Merry Christmas! 🎅🧦🎁
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🥰 Thank you, Cindy, for sharing graciousness and holiday cheer. 🙏🏻Merry Christmas!
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Beautiful poem and beautiful memories of your dad. Sending you a very big hug and wishing you a wonderful Christmas.
I love pop corm and I only know how to make it the old fashioned way. I am quite terrible i can make it daily – every evening.
Lots of love Michele – hugs and happy holiday.
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I gladly accept your very big hug and love and send it back to you. 🤗 Thanks so much, you are super sweet! Have a wonderful and Merry weekend. 😊 Sweet is fine but I’d choose (homemade) salty popcorn anytime! We have excellent tastes. 😁
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Salty for me too
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Memories become more vivid at Christmas time I believe, I think often of my parents this time of year. Wonderful memories of your Dad 🙂
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I believe you are absolutely correct. As our pace slows our memories become more prevalent. I hope your memories bring you smiles and joy. Thank you. 💗 Enjoy your holiday week and stay warm!
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Well that took me back to the early 1970’s 😁 when they were both still here helping my brother and I string popcorn to hang on the tree.
Those were the days (best Edith Bunker rendition)
Lost Mom in Feb 2002
Lost Dad in Aug 2018
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Stringing popcorn takes self-control. We could never refrain from eating it. 😆 Thank you for sharing your special story and the nod to All in the Family. 👏🏻 Wishing you a wonderful holiday season, enjoying popcorn and memories. 😊
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Such a lovely fun poem to share as a way of connecting with your Dad!
Pop, pop, pop, so fun to hear the kernels talk!
love it Michele! ❣️
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Seemed a silly one, but that is needed sometimes. 😊 Popcorn and movie-time is definitely needed! Talking kernels – love that! Thank you, Cindy, and wishing you and your family a week full of cheer and joy! 💗
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Silly is good for sure! I’m going to have to find some chillaxing time for just that fingers crossed Michele. You’re welcome and have a great one too my friend! 💞
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Good luck! 🤞🏻
Did the earthquake affect you at all?
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Thanks ..no but i heard it was HUGE… WILD!!!
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I used to make popcorn the old-fashioned way. Thanks for the happy memory. May your rituals bring you peace and connection to your father. Hugs…
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I am old-fashioned that way. 😁 Some things are best enjoyed in their simple form, despite attempts to improve them. I am grateful for your peaceful thoughts. Thank you, Brad. ✌🏻🤗
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A delish way yo recall memories of your dad. So good that memories stay with us. Love the photographic tribute down memory lane.
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Yes, it is! I’ve enjoyed plenty of popcorn with a movie but never while penning a poem. Delish and heartwarming. 💗 I am glad you enjoyed my photos. Thanks so much for sharing your kind thoughts. 😊
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Be well…
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I will be. 😊 Thank you, Richard.
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Love me some popcorn! What a great memory! Happy Holidays to you and yours!
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It’s more than a snack. 😁 A special memory, yes. 💗 Thank you, Tamara. Enjoy your weekend. 🎄
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Absolutely! Those are the best things! My dad made a yummy skillet potato recipe that I make, and now the kids call them Grandma’s potatoes! Those are the best things to pass on!
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What an endearing story. Wonderful. May Grandma’s potatoes live on for many generations! I have a few of those recipes too. It is a special way to connect. 💞
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Lol! Yes, may generations enjoy the potatoes! I agree food and recipes connect us with people we love!
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Popcorn is such a fun food. I love it and make it just like you do. Great post, Michele.
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Yes it is! 😁 Getting the oil the perfect hot is an art form. Thank you, Dwight. I am glad you enjoyed it.
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You are welcome!
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This world would be a better place with more popcorn!
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I agree. 😁 Thank you. Apologies for the delay… your comment went into spam. Happy Holidays! 🎄
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Thank you for sharing! I lost my dad about ten years ago and the grief loves to resurface around the holidays. It can be strange because it’s “supposed to be” a happy time of year. It’s nice to be able to discuss memories and reflect in a relaxed way. Cheers! xx
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Thank you for reading, Anna. I am grateful. 😊 Grief is an interesting animal, showing up during the holidays and randomly. Beautifully stated and understood. 🙏💗
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Have a beautiful Christmas Michele, with lots of popcorn!
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Thanks so much Simon. 😊 Wishing you the same! Popcorn is optional. 😁
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A Yummy post! I love popcorn, and now I want to pop some! I recall making huge batches for me and my siblings.
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It was quite edible. Write a line have a bite. 😆 Happy memories. 😊 Thank you!
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My father used to pop popcorn for our family in just the way you describe, Michele. It was served with tall aluminum glasses of ice water. He grew popcorn in a huge garden along with vegetables and flowers. Thank you for reminding me how he made us a special treat. Happy holidays Michele! ❤
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You have warmed my heart with this precious family scene. 💗 It’s the simple things, that become the very special things. Thank you for sharing, Cheryl. That ice water would be perfect right now! 😁 Happy Holidays to you!
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Awww this is great! Nothing like great memories. Happy Holidays to you Michele
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Gratitude for you! Honoring pleasant memories while making new ones is a great gift. 🥰 Thank you, beautiful Belladonna. Enjoy!
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That is exactly how I make it , and taught my son to make it when he was a young wee lad. Cheers Michele!🥂Happy Holidays
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I love learning this. 💗 Thanks so much for sharing, Jay! Cheers to Happy Holidays and happy memories!🥂
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I love this I have been trying to figure out how to make popcorn the old fashioned way lately, and I continually end up with a burned batch, before a not so burned batch. What sort of pan do you use? Also what a special memory of your Dad, may your season be blessed with fond memories of your Dad!
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The key is in the heat. 🔥 If the oil is too hot, the kernels burn, not hot enough and the kernels are duds. Enough oil too so the kernels are adequately covered but not drenched or they will be soggy instead of light. A few times and you’ll get it. Then the shaking and lifting. The pan – if you email me (contact page) I’ll send you a picture of my pan. 😊 I appreciate your sweet comments about my dad. Thank you, Danielle. Merry Christmas to you and your family. 💗
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This speaks to me in many ways, enjoyed popcorn with my dad too, so sweet! ❤
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Wonderful and meaningful feedback for me. Thank you, Tiffany. 💗
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Merry Christmas.
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Much gratitude. Thank you and Merry Christmas to you!
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It does make me smile, and reminds me of my dad. Thank you for this, Michele. Happy holiday weekend, my friend. ✨💖❄️🎄
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So happy to know. Thank you, and happy holiday weekend to you, Jeff. 😊 It’s off to a beautiful start. 🌳💖
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You’re most welcome, Michele. Always. Thank you. I’m glad yours is off to a beautiful start. ☺️ It is beautiful here too. 💖🌳
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Merry Christmas dear Michele. Me and my grandchildren. We love the popcorn. I have the old fashion type popcorn maker. Taste like the theater popcorn.
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Thanks, John. How fun! And delicious! Merry Christmas. 🎄
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You are welcome dear Michele and Merry Christmas.
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Popcorn goes well with any holiday! Have a jolly Christmas, Michele!
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That it does. In my opinion. 😁 Thank you, Dawn, for the morning visits and for your incredible generosity this year, supporting independent artists. 👏🏻You’re a gem! 😊
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Thank you, I feel the same about you!
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What a lovely memory! It’s a fun poem, and I can just feel the warmth of it while reading.
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It was a sweet light write. 😊 Made more meaningful by sharing with others. Thanks so much, Conny.
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What a lovely post! Thank you for sharing such a special memory of your dad.
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I am glad I decided to share. 😊 Thank you. 💗
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